Astrology: 5 Reasons Why Virgos Are Inherently Sexy

Jamie Kahl

 
If you’re a Virgo (August 22-September 21), you probably already know that some Virgo* habits are viewed by potential partners as un-sexy.     

by Jamie Kahl , SF Bay Area Astrologer  

Have you ever been called “picky,” “fastidious,” “perfectionist” or even the dreaded “nag?” Even these traits, when viewed in the right way, can be completely sexy.   

Here’s how:  

1. Virgo, you’re independent.    

The definition of a virgin in ancient times was “an independent woman, an unmarried woman, a woman complete unto herself.”   

Truth is, Virgos don’t really need anyone else.  This actually gives you a huge advantage in the relationship arena—you don’t appear desperate. 

2.  You’re a perfectionist.   

Sure, you want the perfect partner.  But you also want to be the perfect you.  To someone in a relationship with you, Virgo, it appears as if all the judgment is directed outwardly—towards them.   

But if they were to get inside your head, they’d quickly realize that even more judgment is directed at yourself.  Ten times more. 

A Virgo judges herself more harshly than anyone.  The upside of this is that a Virgo is self-maintaining.  Who wouldn’t want to be with a person who is always striving to improve themselves?
 
3.  You’re clean.   

And what’s not to like about that?  Sure, you demand that your partner be clean too, but that’s not a bad thing.  Just don’t get all OCD about it.  Be reasonable.  

And allow him a space that’s all his own, that he can have as messy as he wants to.  Then take a space for yourself, in which you can play with order and chaos in the rhythm that feels right to you. 

Find balance in the areas you and he share.  

4. You have boundaries.   

You know where all the lines are.  This means that transgression really means something to you.  When Virgo lets her hair down, she really lets it down.   

There’s no one more lapsed than a lapsed Catholic and there’s no one who understands sheer kinkiness than a person who is hyper-aware of impropriety. 

You get where I’m going with this…absolutely nobody misbehaves better than Virgo.  

5.  In my opinion, #5 is the best one.   

Virgo is the virgin, right?  As a Virgo, you have a God-given ability to restore your virginity.  This is a conceptual, not a literal thing.  It’s in your mind (and as you probably know, the brain is the largest sex organ).  You can conceptually restore your virginity every time you close your legs.  You know exactly what I’m talking about, don’t you?   

I’m saying every time can be like the first time, only better and better as the years pass and you get more familiar and comfortable with your body and its appetites.

Don’t live with your legs closed, Virgo, because when you open them again, it can be entirely fresh and new for you—and the lucky partner you choose to share yourself with.  

Now that nurse fantasy that people sometimes have begins to make sense.  Virgo has inherent hotness all her own.  Love yourself, Virgo!  Put those perfectionist tendencies to work on learning to relax, and to relish your body and your life.  Because maybe—just maybe—you are already completely perfect.  

* You don’t have to “be” a Virgo to feel like one.  Everybody’s got at least a little Virgo inside (and sometimes a lot), even if her actual “sign” (i.e. Sun sign) is something else.  

And if you’re not a Virgo, check out  Jamie’s other articles on Gemini, Taurus, Aries , Cancer and Leo!  

Read more about Virgo on Jamie’s Astrology and Personal Empowerment blog.Contact Jamie to get your astrology reading and enjoy a $30 discount in your birthday month when you mention the Bay Area Women’s Journal. 

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